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Season Two 



Nudity, body positivity & crudités


In this episode of Finger Food, Charlie Ann Max speaks about being naked and its meaning beyond nudity.

She talks the innocence and importance of nudity outside the realms of sex and porn, anti-censorship on Instagram, body positivity, erotic art, the liberation that comes with people gathering together and being naked at dinner parties, going on a sex cleanse and so much more.

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Gender constructs, colonisation & cherries


In this episode, Te Awarangi (Awa) Te Roera Puna shares her thoughts on the constructs of gender.
She speaks about how we need to decolonize views around sexuality and gender, being bullied for being mis-gendered as a child,
the absurdity of school uniforms and gendered bathrooms,
her “whore era”, being on Grinder, fethishisation, getting sexy with friends, porn stars with giant shlongs, and now being in a fruitful passionate relationship and so much more.

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Menopause, masturbation & proper crisps


In this episode, Belinda Wiley shares tools to reignite desire in long-term relationships, how she HAS keep the spice alive in her own 40 years of marriage, being a SEXaginerian (woman in her 60’s) and sexually thriving, menopause, the miracle of LUBE, celebrating our pussys however they look, Masturbation vs self-pleasure, letting go of the goal of the big o and so much more.

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The sexless marriage, redefining masculinity & spicy snacks


In this intimate conversation, I chat to Brady Polkinghorne (who just so happens to be my x-husband). We get into the nitty gritty of our sexless marriage, sex therapy, masculinity, performance anxiety, losing Identity in the relationship, finding love after divorce and becoming dear friends after a breakup.

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Sex scenes, beauty standards & strawberries


In this intimate conversation, Karim talks about being a man and expressing your femininity,  African culture and homophobia, beauty standards in the entertainment industry, getting the sex talk at 21 (lol), lying about losing your virginity to be cool, confidence, playing out sex scenes with both men and women, the anxiety of them airing and so much more!

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Aphrodisiacs, sugar daddies & shagging on shrooms


In this intimate conversation, Gizzi Erskine talks about pronouns for the older generations, sex lies and dm slides, sugar daddies, aphrodisiacs, shagging on shrooms, sex in your 40’s and societal pressures around kids and marriage.
She shares her journey to finding sexy stable love and so much more!

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Bi-sexuality, sexy communication & cookies


In this episode Otis Herring speaks to bi-sexuality, being a man and dressing in skirts,
the contradiction of “straight” men having sex with men,
the proposal tug-a-war in same-sex relationships,
communication and bold honesty being the key to success in relating,  dance as a way to express your sexuality, stripping and leaning into new experiences in sex and in life.

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Femme queens, fetishisation and flakes


In In this intimate conversation, Jaycee Tanuvasa talks about having autonomy over her identity.
She speaks to pansexuality, what voguing and ballroom actually is, hormone replacement therapy, survival sex work, fetishisation, beauty standards and so much more.

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Big thank you to our Season Two Sponsors: Jonny, Underlena, Daily Rituals, Remind
 




Season One



Empowered By

 

Gender Literacy, Cancel Culture & Olives 


In this intimate conversation, Rob Tennent shares his journey around growing up queer in a conservative all-boys school. He talks about gender literacy, the do’s and the don'ts in this ripe world of cancel culture, and how listening and being curious is the greatest gift you can give yourself and those around you.

Thank you to Bumble for helping us spread the sexy word.

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Self Pleasure & Sweet Mangos


In this intimate conversation, Batanai Mashingaidze shares her journey to self-love. She talks about body image, self-pleasure, and porn and speaks to the complexities of queerness coming from a religious background.

Thank you to Clinicians for helping us spread the sexy word.

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Stripping, Sexual Liberation & Juicy Fruit


In this intimate conversation,  Ashleigh Williams speaks about her experience with stripping and OnlyFans. She shares how listening to herself, following spontaneity and letting go of what other people think of her have been the keys to unlocking her sexual liberation.

Thank you to Herself NZ for helping us spread the sexy word.

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OnlyFans, Orgasms & Focaccia


In this intimate conversation, Alma Proenca shares her journey around OnlyFans, morals, money and mental health.
We go into the female orgasm and how exploring self-pleasure is one of the best gateways to reaching the big O.

Thank you to Videris for helping us spread the sexy word.

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Transitioning & Summer Cherries


In this intimate conversation, Maddox Drew shares their journey with transitioning from a girl to a boy at school. They share how they experienced sexism as a girl and then male privilege as a boy all the while coming up against transphobia. Now non-binary, they talk about how they have navigated relationships along the way.

Thank you to The Caker for helping us spread the sexy word.

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Polyamory & Papaya


In this intimate conversation, Biku Wernick shares his journey with polyamory and how jealousy has played out in his life. We talk about performance anxiety, the power of communication and honesty in relationships and the tool of Non-violent-communication.

Thank you to Braveface for helping us spread the sexy word.

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Big thank you to our Season One Sponsors: Bumble, The Caker, Videris, Braveface, Clinicians, Herself